Well good luck out there. I also like to take the lead..
My marriage recently ended because my ex was hooking up with people from here (secretly and lying about it,) when he showed me his profile it was full of photos of his conquests which shocked me at the time and still annoys me because they didn't know their pics were here but anyway that's another story.There are too many attractive people in this world for a single ideal.
Ideally i would want a longterm fwb.Wife gets fucked sleeping xxxxx.